For those of you out there who have never been in a date before and will experience going in one for the very first time, we are sure that figuring out the right thing to say and how you can start the conversation on a very light note will present a certain level of difficulty and nerve-rackingness on your end. This is mostly the case especially if you are not prepared for it. Of course, when you are on your first date or a date as a whole, you would want to make sure that you are giving a good impression to your partner as this is everything and also, you would not want, as well, to blow your date by starting off in the wrong way. In order for you to be able to make everything work well on your first date, we will present to you some of the most effective and easiest ways on how you can break the ice and get things going smoothly on your first date.
If you are the type of person who is humorous and funny, then you are at and advantage on this as you can use your humor to entertain your date earlier on. But then again, there are some important things that you have to bear in mind when it comes to this like the fact that it is good to be funny and all during the first few minutes of your date however, if you think that the humor has died down, you must not force the funny at all. Laughing at your own joke or your own halfway funny jokes is a not-so-good idea for you to practice, well, unless your date or the other person is laughing genuinely at it. Therefore, the best way for you to tell a few jokes on your first date is to start by stating a disclaimer or asking them if they wanna hear a joke as more than ninety percent of the time, the answer to that question would be either a “sure, go ahead” or “okay, I won’t mind” or something along those lines. If you want to keep things classy at first, the best thing that you can do about this is to try starting with clean jokes at the very beginning.
Apart from entertaining your date with your witty remarks and funny jokes, another important factor that you have to consider is to look for an activity or activities you both shared with each other or a mutual interest for that matter. If it so happen that you are not someone who is funny or humorous as you are a serious one or if you perceive that your date is like that, you can start out by talking about some fun things you did this week or any interest you are in to.